DIY Big and Tall Wedding Attire - Summer Edition

For big guys, creating a look in the style you want and the size you need can be a difficult, time-consuming experience. You know how hard it is to put together a casual look that works, but what if you’re looking for big and tall wedding attire? That’s even more difficult, especially if that look is the one you’ll be wearing on your wedding day. Our wedding was going to be a bit less traditional, as we planned to get married in Las Vegas. Because we were going to be doing the ceremony at the Venetian, and we were skipping the Elvis impersonator, I wanted my look to be laid back, yet well-put together and formal enough to stand out.

[threecol_one]Bruce's Big & Tall Wedding Look[/threecol_one] [threecol_one]McTavish Oxfords by Allen Edmonds[/threecol_one] [threecol_one_last]Sovereign Beck Calypso Necktie[/threecol_one_last]

Deconstructing Bruce’s Big and Tall Wedding Attire

With temperatures forcast to be in the low 100’s in Las Vegas that day, wearing a tuxedo was out. Besides, most of the tuxes I’ve worn aren’t very flattering; they’re boxy and do strange things with my body shape. We decided to go for more of a classic look, with a few unique touches. The shirt is an IZOD big and tall button down from J.C. Penney (Big & Tall XL), and the vest is an Egara Slim Fit Vest from Men’s Wearhouse (5X). The jeans are 559’s from Levis (44×29), and the amazing shoes are McTavish black wax-infused leather wingtip oxfords from Allen Edmonds (10 EEE).

[threecol_one]Big and Tall Summer Wedding Style[/threecol_one] [threecol_one]More Big and Tall Wedding Style[/threecol_one] [threecol_one_last]Summer Wedding at the Venetian[/threecol_one_last]

The additional accents used to finish off the look included the Calypso necktie from Sovereign Beck’s Spring/Summer 2013 collection, Fighter Black socks from Richer Poorer and a unique looking paper boutonniere from FlowerThyme, a store we found on Etsy. Our concern was that organic flowers wouldn’t hold up well in the summer heat, so the handcrafted quality of the paper flowers appealed to us. I also brought along a cap from Stetson, but ultimately chose not to wear it.

Summer Wedding Style for Big Men

In all, my big and tall wedding attire cost me about $530, though half of that was the price of those sweet, sweet, shoes. For me, the price was well worth it; I was able to wear a look I put together from scratch that suited the feel of our wedding, and I felt great when I had it on. Special thanks to photographer Gaby Jeter for taking these amazing photos on short notice. She specializes in using film cameras, and you can see more of her work at


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    TanyaXSuperhero 5pts

    Just watched Limitless and wow, great actor! I can't wait to watch more.

    Danielle Luna
    Danielle Luna 5pts

    Lol I wouldn't even call him chubby. He's tall.

    debrod75 5pts

    Thanks Good To know!! My Son who is 15, 6ft tall at 300lbs doesn't like to go shopping cause of all the trouble we have finding him clothes. Even going shoe shopping is a chore. I buy his shoes online and pray they fit right, cause where I live the biggest shoe size any store carries is a 13. I'm glad he is not picky and doesn't care about named brand clothing.

    Jeannie Taylor-Curtis
    Jeannie Taylor-Curtis 5pts

    How is he a plus size he just looks like a stud .... Guess Gronk is a plus size too?

    Mark Hofman
    Mark Hofman 5pts

    Target has almost nothing to fit us Plus Sized guys! I hate having to go to Walmart - but they have clothes that fit!

    Shelly Bell
    Shelly Bell 5pts

    OMG that's his actual wife. I had hopes and now they're dashed. \U0001f602 \U0001f602 \U0001f602

    Shelly Bell
    Shelly Bell 5pts

    Wait what? I'm just over here drooling.

    Gary Bone
    Gary Bone 5pts

    I'd volunteer! I'm 6'2 390 I'm a truly plus sized man! I'd be up for the challenge \U0001f60c\U0001f60a

    Allie Bradley
    Allie Bradley 5pts

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    Chubstr 5pts

    Agreed, Gary! Our hope is that companies will see these things and feature more models of a variety of sizes.

    Gary Bone
    Gary Bone 5pts

    "Plus sized"...I guess you gotta start somewhere

    Chubstr 5pts

    You're right Jakob Gustav Felts, and it's something Zach touches on in the article. It's a first step, and before this, there wasn't ANYTHING in the way of male size diversity to be found there. It's our job to spotlight things like this and show these companies that we want even more models of a variety of sizes to be featured on their site and in their advertising!

    James Cummings
    James Cummings 5pts

    Nice looking guy...but I got that too. Im a Giggalo...and a Gigga-high.

    Jakob Gustav Felts
    Jakob Gustav Felts 5pts

    I'm glad Target is making the effort, but the fact of the matter is, most guys looking for plus sized clothing don't have the slender build that he does. -_-